Last week, my husband and I went to eat with my dad and brother at a Mexican restaurant.
My husband served his mission in Tijuana, Mexico and LOVES the culture.
As we enjoy ourselves and eat at the restaurant in Provo, UT... a question comes to my mind (notice that a way for the spirit to help us help others is by bringing questions to our minds. A lot of the time.. those questions are exactly what we need to ask in order to help others effectively. Don't be afraid to ask the questions that come to your mind)
.."are these people members?"
(The family who own and run the restaurant).
So.. I decided to OPEN MY MOUTH and ask. I compliment the food and say how delicious it is. I also asked the owner/cook/grandmother what it was that brought her and her family to the United States, and then end up in Utah.
She then begins to tell me more about herself and her family.
Then the question we've all been waiting for.."are you all members?"
She then tells me how she and her husband are less-active and the rest of her family are not.
David (my husband, we just got married last Saturday) and I got excited and decided we wanted to help her and her husband come back to church, and then see the rest of her family baptized.
A way for us to do this, is to continue eating at their restaurant on occasion and be closer to their family. At the same time as being close to their family, we will bring Gospel related conversations and nudge them back to Church.
This is a little example of what "opening our mouths" can do for others and ourselves.
We must talk with everyone!